HOW TO ATTRACT YOUR SOULMATE
Most people who are dating want the same thing. They want to meet someone compatible for a long term relationship
or marriage. But why is dating so hard, and more importantly why is finding the right fit so difficult? My answer to that
is, maybe, just maybe, you are searching in the wrong place. Moreover, searching might not be the best way to find your soulmate.
In fact, from my 14 years of dating experience I would say the best way to meet someone is to attract that person into your
life rather than search them out. At this point the question in your mind might be, 'how do I do that?'
It's a very simple concept that eludes most people who are dating. We can't make a relationship happen, just the
way you can't make the sun shine or the rain fall. We don't have that much power, but throughout time we somehow think that
the more dating we do, the more internet searching we accomplish, this will bring us closer to a soul mate. However,
dating just doesn't work that way.
The best way to attract someone into your life is to be what you want to
attract. If I want to meet a kind, generous, fun, loving man, then I have to resonate, on a daily basis, with being kind,
generous, fun and loving. Now that this concept is in place, to go one step further, I will go to events that are of interest
for me. Like take a dance lesson, or join a writing workshop, this way I increase my chances of attracting someone of like-mind.
If you like to hike, join a singles hiking group. Of if you like to travel you can join a singles travel group. You get the
picture, it's about putting yourself out there so 'fate' can play a hand in your dating life. I believe it is all about fate
and the more you put that positive energy out into the world the more you have better odds of bringing that back into your
Now on-line dating can be part of fate. My friend Bob met is future wife
on an on-line site called, "Our Time." The point is, don't put all your eggs in one on-line basket, spread yourself out there
so you can let 'fate' do its job.
put out the energy you want to attract then go out and put yourself at fun single events so you have a chance
of attracting that person into your life.
If you want to read more
about this concept, please get a copy of my book, "Lessons from the Needle in a Haystack." It has helped thousands of people
maneuver more successful and with fun in the precarious world of dating.
Additionally, my on-line
course, 'How to Attract your Soulmate', is designed to help you clear the channels so you can put out positive energy
without the blocks that sometimes stops us from being able to move forward.
See the link below for both the book and the